Masculine Frame

Dating is a struggle for most these days, even women. Times have been changing at a feverish rate over the last 100 years, but human nature has not. We all get so caught up in our lives and all the distractions that we forget who we are as a gender and our importance. Women don't hate men, they despise weak ones. I have asked quite a few ladies what their taste is and almost all of them want the 6 foot, muscular, bearded and wealthy man. From the outside we don't like hearing that because we get too emotional... We take it personally. Why would you take their preference personally unless you are actively not living up to it? The solution to our woes in the dating scene is not at all an easy fix. Feminism as a whole is a major problem and traps young women into a mindset where they think that everything they see just magically is, it is because they need it and it will always be there. This is logical fallacy. At the end of the day Men ultimately built everything you can see, hear, taste and experience. When it comes to the actual importance of sex for societal improvements, men are the ones that do it all so should be praised the most, right? Wrong, unless you personally built it a woman will never care, she only cares about what you bring to the table. Thats it guys. Women are smart and understand that the "We built everything" is also a flawed argument for respect. Unless you built it, they don't want to hear it. So where exactly does this leave men and how can they navigate the dating scene if all this is true? Frame.

Frame is knowing who you are, what your destiny is, and having a relentless pursuit of it at all times. This alone is attractive, but when combined with intermittent removal from seeing each other is when it gets deadly. Women thrive off attention, that is the main reason things like Instagram, Tiktok, Onlyfans are a thing. If no one watches it then it will die, but for some reason we keep giving validation to others which artificially increases their self-worth. Men need to get off the apps and away from this attention economy to help reset the brains of the ladies out there. Men feel disrespected because they don't command any of themselves. They get walked over for lack of a spine. Yelled at due to the meekness of their voice. If you want respect - build your personal frame, stick to it, and defend it at all costs. In practice this would be like a night out drinking. Your Girlfriend keeps buying shots and is getting sloppy drunk. Old you would have said "when are we going to go, is that your last one?!" Change that to "We are leaving in 5 minutes, Do not buy another drink or you can get an uber." That small shift may seem mean to some, however it is not. You are being authoritative, which women love. It can come off as pushy, demanding, harsh, cruel - but deep down something will click in her head that she is yours to protect and her actions are making that more difficult for you. This then leads to the choice! You are leaving in 5 minutes, she can either listen or disobey. Listening will make you happy and she might get a reward for being a good girl - like a kiss on the forehead. The other option is an absolute consequence; She will get drunker, be left alone, and to fend for herself. Again, this is not cruel. This is teaching consequences to her as she hasn't had to deal with many of those growing up in such a pampered world. The second you start saying no, you build up your frame of what is allowable. Now chase something down that is greater than you and will have her absolute respect, and obedience. Don't and you reap what you sow. Sit around getting fat, lazy, uneducated just endlessly drifting through existence and see how that works out. Do not blame women for the lack of spine that the modern man has. They are creatures of habit and the habits they have been taught are out of your control; take care of what you can control and set the Frame so whenever she is with you she has a rulebook to play by. This is just a very basic overview of Frame, I will share much more detail on dating in my Masculinity guide which will release next month. Thank you for reading, much love.

King Duffey